My best associate does not have a/c plus she is unapologetic about it… Since the two of us live in the northern region of the country, she feels that it is a waste of currency. However because most of our year is freezing, she doesn’t think it’s necessary to pay for central air that will only be utilized for a few weeks of the year. Though i admire her passion, I don’t share it. She always invites me over to her house, plus I usually care about it. But, I am always trying to urge her to meet me in a public location or to come over to our house in the summer. I am uneasy about hurting her feelings, so I don’t want to tell her out right that I’d rather be somewhere with a/c. I just cannot stand being tepid plus sticky. It’s always such a lovely feeling when you’ve been out in the humidity plus you finally come inside to cool off. Sometimes I can’t come up with a reason or excuse to get out of going to her house, so I am forced to just suffer through it. I’ve found being proactive with plans is the best way to avoid this… For example, I make an extra effort to ask our best associate to hang out before she has the chance to! When I ask her to hang out, I make sure that I have an identifiable method in our mind before she has the occasion to suggest that I come stop by her location, then this is usually effective… Last week, I asked her to go on a walk with me plus stop for supper. By the end of the walk, the two of us were so hot. The a/c at the eating establishment felt so amazing plus cooled me down instantly. I can’t understand how our associate wouldn’t want to experience the cool air all the time.