When it comes to preparing for the future, both of us all can agree that it is important.
Living spur of the moment or day to day can be stressful in several cases plus knowing what the next step is can bring order to almost any situation, and there is a point where preparing for that future or what may happen can become a problem.
It can become all consuming plus take over so much of your life that you forget to love the here plus now. This is the case with our spouse, and each Summer he spends endless hours chopping wood, stacking it in the barn, plus making sure both of us have an overabundance of firewood. He also orders Heating and Air Conditioning filters in bulk plus then tries to store them in the spare kitchen. It is love he thinks that they will stop making them plus the Heating and Air Conditioning method will fail on us. He is so obsessed with preparing for the next Winter time season that he doesn’t even love the Summer with the rest of the family, but don’t get myself and others wrong, it is comforting to feel that the family will bewarmall Winter time but both of us would love to have him join us sometimes on our Summer outings. It has even caused disagreements from time to time. I actually wish he would just make arrangements to have the firewood delivered plus stacked, plus have the Heating and Air Conditioning business worry about supplying the filters when both of us need them. I think his stress level would be much less too, but maybe I will look into the cost of it plus then present our case to him again in a few weeks.