So how do I handle a situation where I like a woman but I’m not sure if she cares about me? Help me! I have seen her for a year or more, however I haven’t seen her with a woman and just found out a couple of nights ago that she is not married either. I asked her if she was married because I saw some rings on her finger, although she said no. She is easily shy, or just does not want to talk to me, however I want to see if she is interested without being a fool. The local contractor where she hangs out is owned by my friend, so maybe I could do an air duct cleaning for them and sniff out the situation. Or I could just ask my buddy who owns the place what the deal is with her. Anyway, today is a moderate one and I will be heading down to the sea soon to take a look at the giant tournament going on with all of my friends playing. I had to work for the local contractor and I told them I couldn’t play in it, but the real reason is that I would rather rest in a temperature controlled flat than play in another tournament. I bet I have played in 500 beach volleyball tournaments over the years and I am at the point now where watching them is more fun than playing in them. My cooling system is keeping me cool in my flat while all of them are heating up on that sizzling sandy beach.