While the idea of having my mother-in-law live with us is strenuous the reality of the situation is that we may have no choice. Our choices in property care are becoming more limited as her mental faculties are slipping farther plus farther away. She is childlike on most days plus makes everyday choices that can be dangerous. My pal and I have looked into the opening of having a property health aide stay with her during the hours while we are at toil despite the fact that she seems agitated when a stranger is in the house. My pal and I can’t risk her hurting herself or others either. My pal and I need to make some adjustments to our property to make this new arrangement work. The area that we will be using as an property for her was never intended as a space for someone to live so we need to add a lavatory, upgrade the space with it’s own heating plus cooling, plus make sure that each exit has an alarmed lock so we know if she is leaving unattended, then by making this safe space we can hire someone for minimum care such as meal prep plus socialization instead of having a higher level of full on care. If she feels that the person is basically visiting her plus having a meal with her she will be less likely to be aggressive, however she would hopefully view them as a friend instead of a caregiver. My pal and I checked into the chances of a separate heating plus cooling equipment plus we found that we can have a mini split equipment installed that can be controlled by our phones. My mother-in-law would not have the ability to adjust the temperature on her own so the space would not be too hot or too cold at any given time. I am sure that this will be the best choice for all of us when it is all done.